Today as I'm leaving for work (yay work!) I drove past the school bus stop on the corner of my street. There was a mom waiting in her car across the street, while her kid waited at the stop. I've heard of parents who do this, but I've never actually seen it in real life.
I don't have kids right now so clearly I know how to parent and can say I won't be a hover parent. But I can see the bus stop from my front window. So when the time comes for DC and SP to ride the school bus, I can at least hover from the comforts of my home and with my coffee. At least I've got that plan all worked out.
What I also don't get though, is if you are going to hover, then why don't you they just take the kid strait to school? I know quite often that school isn't really on the way so this isn't an option at times. But to me it feels like a waste of time to just wait there.
I took the bus to school, unwatched, in middle and high school. Don't get me wrong, I tried to get out of it every chance I had, and once I was a junior, I was a snot and refused to take the bus. But I also walked to elementary school since the school was in my neighborhood. I walked (and later waited) in the snow, in the rain, in the freezing cold and in the blistering heat, along with the other neighborhood kids. We didn't get a badge of honor and we didn't expect any accolades for it either. We had to walk, it was stupid not.
Plus, getting ride to school from my parents, was impossible (they also never pulled us out for dentist or doctor's appointments either). We would walk to school no matter what. I'm serious, they never gave us a ride. You think I'm just over exaggerating for this story's sake? Well, here's this: When I was in 4th grade I played the cello, which was, yes, bigger than me. It was too big for me to carry back and forth to school. So on orchestra days, my mom would give the cello a ride to school and not me!
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